Random thoughts, mostly about K

Short business trips always end up being a time of some introspection. Longer trips I really start missing my guys, but shorter trips allow me some time to stop and think about things for a bit without getting lonely. Time with my thoughts is fleeting so I love the chance. One of my co-workers always stimulates positive thinking for me and helps me remember what is important, what to focus on, and how to keep all the balls in the air.

I’m really not sure where things are headed with K. The APD diagnosis gives us something to work with over the summer. There are other things still on the table that I have moments of worry about but then it passes too. We may still be dealing with ADHD or with Asperger’s. I have mixed feelings about both but know ‘what’ it is doesn’t matter, the love I feel for him is the same. I just want to know how to best support and help him develop. We have to work on the APD first to see if that helps the symptoms of the others.

Today was a big day for us. It was the last day of school. K has done well enough that he isn’t being held back so we are officially the parents of a first grader. I’m not sure how that has come to pass. Seven years ago this week I found out I was pregnant with K. Now he is a first grader. Somehow it seems like it was just a little while ago I saw that second line of the test.

T starts two day a week preschool in August. It will be the start of a transition. He is growing and developing so quickly. It really makes M and I step back and realize how much we missed with K. T is so much more verbal, knows many shapes, identifies letters, and counts. All stuff that K didn’t do until far later. Layer on top T’s physical strengths and abilities and boy do we feel like cruddy parents who missed a lot of signs that K was struggling. That said, nothing we can do to change that so keep working to help and support him as much as possible.

Work has been busy. Good busy, but crazy busy. M is going to come with me to EVO in Park City later this month. It is nice when work and life briefly coincide. The kids will stay here but we are really looking forward to the time together. Work is sponsoring the conference so that part will also be very interesting. I’m hoping to get a clue about blogging while I’m there and this will hopefully be a better place to visit come July.

The weekend after EVO we are visiting my brother and his family in NY and we are VERY, VERY excited about that. The cousins have a blast together. Stay tuned for pictures.